Be Impeccable With Your Word: The First of The Four Agreements
Blooming Blog Series
“Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.”
I remember during a conversation with one of my Spiritual Mentors, he said to me “The power of the word - it can create or destroy.” And it’s so true. Not only do actions make an impact but the words can do just as much to build up or tear down.
Words surround us constantly all the time - media, chatter, conversations we are in, conversations we overhear. We read them, say them, sing them, spit them and write them. Think about a time you couldn’t find the right words. And what about a time you said the exact right thing for someone to find hope again? Constantly thoughts being created into words which are created into things. Writing in a journal, for example, can bring realizations that become actions. Or, ever see an ad and decide you have to look into the product being sold, that’s the power of the word. Words influence and when thoughtless words are said or written, what happens? How many times have we seen Facebook fights? That’s all about the word.
This First Agreement seems so easy, right?
Just watch how you speak, sure. But think about all the ways we can communicate now. The invention of the internet gives us so many options to express ourselves. And lately, we’ve seen from actions in the world, words can create situations that are unfathomable. What comes out of our mouths is our responsibility. And, I don’t know about you, but the taste of putting my foot in my mouth isn’t so pleasant.
So how do we follow this agreement?
We can start with us. How do we speak about ourselves? Do we utter words of kindness or do we tear our mistakes and who we are down? It’s easy to do. Think about a phrase you repeat about yourself - is it helping or hurting?
What if we knew that our words are not only heard by those here on earth but those in the Spirit World? Manifestation comes from our thoughts and words. So if we say that we are capable, strong, doing our best, making our way - could we see our words opening roads and opportunities for us? It’s very possible. Try it. Instead of saying, “I failed at that.” Try “That didn’t work out for me but, if it makes sense, I’ll adjust and try again when I’m ready.” One is closure, one is opportunity.
Now that doesn’t mean to say you speak things that aren’t true. In fact, the 1st agreement doesn’t say that, you want to speak with truth and love. It means it asks you to pause and think about your words. How will they impact others but also you?
I know it’s something that is said often but it starts with you and the example you set. In one of my incarnations in Corporate America, I was a Training Manager. I remember people telling me that they watched their language around me, not just because I was a Manager but I set an example and they followed. I also liked to listen a lot because their words helped guide me on how I could help change things. (I also had chocolate in my office which brought a lot of people there and lots of conversations too. That’s a free tip for you.)
Your words can set boundaries with compassion.
Make people understand their worth.
Help others see their truth.
Let someone know how they are loved.
And put plans in motion both here and the Universe.
Believe in the power of your words; what you say means something important.
Pay attention to your words and more can chat with just your voice.
If you missed the introduction to my Blooming Blog Series - you can read it here. It’s about 2 minute read. Enjoy! - Mary